boifran Wrote:
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Dear H&N,
I recently moved from London to NYC. My best guy
friend for 6 years called me from there today. He
told me he loves me, like, loves me. He started
crying and then, he made me cry. I've always seen
him as more of a brother figure and never like a
boyfriend. I feel terrible. I want to tell him how
I feel, which is, I don't want to be his
girlfriend, but, I feel like that'd be to cruel.
It's not like I can just, move back to London. I
don't know what to do. Help, please.
Thanks,
Teddy
Dear Teddy,
I know that you think it'll be cruel but you have
known him for 6 years now, and he is your best friend.
But best friends tell each other everything.. right?
You say he's more like a brother then a boyfriend,
then you have to tell him that!
Call him and tell him you do
love him,
but not like a boyfriend way..
Because sometimes if you have a close friend where
you can talk with for hours.. And go liking each other,
then you have the chance your gone break up and
ending losing that close friend!
And no one wants to lose a best friend.
So i do think you should tell him that you don't
see him as a boyfriend, but as a brother.
I bet he'll understand since you are close friends.
Love, H&N